Tuesday, June 19, 2012

Father's Day Sermon


The One whom Jesus called Father

On this Father’s Day of 2012 I would like to begin our time by asking one question that will eventually lead into other questions that should end us up with one specific question… now what was that all about?

Here is my question…Who is the God whom Jesus called Father? And can he be trusted? Is the One whom Jesus called Abba Father worthy of our trust? And we sometimes shot from the hip when posed with such a question but it is a question that seeks deep into our souls and at difficult times in our lives stares us right in the face.


Lets begin with a basketball question…streak shooters claim…it is a mathematical claim…and a complete and total false claim…each shot is independent from all shots before or after


Many believe that this study is way off base…why? Because in some way shape form or fashion they have experienced what we call streak shooting or otherwise known as “they are on fire” but the understanding is completely based on experience. And even faced with a fact that streak shooting is simply a myth…when sized up against experience…experience most often wins.

Now this got me thinking…is our understanding of God often deeply shaped by our experience of God. Because he is a relational God. This is beautifully seen in John 14:8-21.


Now back to our question regarding trust…


This question takes us back to the beginning…so lets go to Genesis 3 and see where it takes us.

Question #1

 Why would Adam and Eve risk so much for a piece of fruit? It seems like in the garden life is pretty good. They have gotten to name the animals…relationships with each other are in harmony…relationship with God is as it should be…everything is as it should be…the world is right…why would they risk so much???

And the logic of this story is that they are going for the 1 thing they do not have…that’s their independence. The serpent says if you eat of this fruit then you will be like God. And up till this point they have been completely dependent upon God but if they can eat that fruit and become like God they can declare their independence from God.


Question #2

 If God does not want them to eat this fruit why did he put that tree there in the first place? And not only does he put there and the story is quite clear but he puts it in a place where it is highly desirable—its like parents putting a cookie jar in the middle of a table telling the children in this jar are the best chocolate chip cookies in the history of the world but you cant have any. What sense does that make?

But if you follow the logic of the story…b.t.w. I think this is one of the most helpful ways of reading the Bible. You gotta get in a conversation with the story that is being told, because we are invited to participate in this story. As it talks to you, you gotta talk back.

SCRIPTURE IS DISRUPTIVE TO OUR WAYS OF LOOKING AT THE WORLD  

The logic of the story is something like this…God wants to know from the very beginning if the human beings he has created will trust him or not. Will they trust him to be their provider and caretaker or will they attempt to be the source of their own security? That is the theme for the rest of Scripture and the underlying most important question we will ever ask…

 Will human beings trust God or will they try to be the source of their own security?

There are two biblical stories I want to mention briefly about this

1. Is found in Genesis 22 and I must begin this story with a joke…why did God ask Abraham to sacrifice his 12 year old son Isaac? Answer…if he had waited until he was a teenager it would not have been a sacrifice…

And now the tricky part where I try to make that meaningful…back to the story…22:3-14

2. Daniel 3…Hananiah…Mishael…and Azariah…also known as Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego…lets pick up in 3:13-18

Will human beings trust God or will they try to be source of their own security?

So when we come to Jesus he basically says this about God…God can be trusted. The God that Jesus calls Father is worthy to be trusted…

This is clearly seen in his story…before the cross in Matthew 26…and we often sing this song…”He could have called 10 thousand angels…now I don’t think it would have taken 10 thousand it would have only 3 b/c angels have ray guns…but at any point Jesus could have called all the hosts of heaven and defended himself but he instead choose to trust his Father who would not abandon him, even though he would eventually die. Even in the prayer from the cross…which is a prayer by the way…Jesus begins with My God…but he’s quoting from the Psalms Psalm 22 to be exact and this Psalm screams I will trust no matter what my current experience looks like. I will trust.

Jesus trusts his Father on the cross not to abandon his soul in Hades but to raise him up. That is why the cross is Jesus’ great profession of faith. Even in the face of death he will choose to trust his Father over than trying to be the source of his own security.

We see this from Paul in Romans 5 where he does this comparison thing between Adam and Jesus and here is the jest…

Adam—goes to the tree will he go for the fruit and be the source of his own security or will he trust God?



Jesus—goes to the tree will he be the source of his own security or will he trust God by going to the cross.


Paul’s calculation—Adam gets an F…Jesus---gets an A.


That’s why the Hebrews writer says Jesus is the pioneer of our faith…he shows us how to do it. How to radically and completely trust God.


Ok…this is where for all us it gets personal and heart searching.


Will we trust God when everything around us tells us otherwise?


Last time I preached on Father’s Day I gave a memorial sermon to my dad who had passed some months prior…here is some of that sermon. 


My dad fought in the Vietnam War. He did not want to fight, but he did anyways. The time that he spent in war is what I believe brought the illness upon him. From conversations with family members and friends his time that he spent in that war brought nightmares and a depression that he could not control. In May of 1997 a test result diagnosed dad with what is called chronic lymphocytic leukemia. It was a stage 0 type of leukemia that did not require any treatment or brought dad any discomfort at all, it was just there. And all dad had to do was a couple times a year go in for a blood test just to make sure nothing had changed. My dad never smoked a cigarette or touched any drug or even drank a bit of alcohol, I believe that even on his honeymoon with my mom they had sparkling grape juice. He ate weird stuff like vegetables/ all the regular stuff but he ate turnip greens, cabbage, beef liver, and would add onions to his green peas. Strangely he hated sour cream and guacamole. He would experiment with all kinds of dishes, adding bacon grease to his green beans which by the way is the only way he would get me to eat them. He made the best spaghetti and chili I have ever tasted. He really took care of himself. Except for some heart problems that were most likely caused by his crazy spoiled rotten son. But some how he came to have that cancer.

On Nov. 4th of 2004 his only grandson was born. I can honestly say that I have only seen dad smile that much once before and that was at Carrie and I’s wedding. But the joy that was on his face when he held Dylon for the first time is unforgettable. My dad willingly and it seemed at times forcefully watched Dylon when Carrie went back to work and while I went to school. He was able to watch Dylon for six months. Then in March of 2005, dad begins to have sinus problems, dental problems begin because of TMJ that had not yet been detected by doctors. April, May and June the same problems exist only a slight increase in symptoms, doctors think that the cause of his pain is from TMJ and preexisting sinus problems. In July of 05 he quit working the Opry and voluntarily quit watching Dylon. Late in the summer he had nose surgery to try and figure out if all the drainage problems were from some problem in his nose and he went physical therapy for his TMJ. In Aug of 05 dad had what is called a septoplasty operation on his nose to try and fix his constant drainage problems. By this time dad was unable to eat a lot of foods, the weight loss had begun to take affect on his mental and psychological health. During this month he also had many blood transfusions/ he was diagnosed as being anemic. Doctors still do not have a clue as to what is causing all these problems/ seems more like guesswork than anything. In September another operation was given and the results were that what was causing all the sinus problems/ all the dental problems/ the fact that now he could not eat was due to a mass that was discovered by accident near the base of his tongue. The diagnosis was lymphoma of the larynx. Once discovered the pathologist immediately started chemotherapy. He was only able to complete two rounds of chemotherapy. At the end of October he started to have frequent temperatures all above 100 degrees. The doctors diagnosed it as capnocytophaga/ in other words cat and dog disease. A disease that anyone else could have fought off with a cough and a sneeze, but someone who is taking chemotherapy treatments is like a well person coming down with the flu. In Nov due to the amount of weight that dad had lost and that now he cannot swallow at all a feeding tube was put in to keep nourishment in his body. He could no longer talk to anyone, all his communication was through writing. Later that month since chemotherapy could not affect what the doctors are now calling squamous cell cancer that was caused by the chronic lymphocytic leukemia that he was diagnosed with nine years ago. Radiation now began and there were signs of improvement at one point in time during the treatments. He went through 36 treatments. In Jan of 06 breathing began to be a problem for dad. He had a trac put in to help with his breathing. The radiation by itself was not doing enough so they started what is called hypothermia treatments which I guess is just turning up the heat. My dad goes through all this without complaining once/ and watching and hearing his grandson upstairs playing and witnessing his Carrie and I try to make him as comfortable as possible while trying to go about daily living. On Feb 18th a Saturday evening we had to call an ambulance to pick dad up, he had become delusional from all the anxiety and antibiotics and depression medication and pain medication that he was taking. He stayed in Southern Hills until February 27th when we were advised to have him moved to hospice care. On March 4th a Saturday morning after a Friday night filled with Gods Holy Spirit all around his room and the presence of Jesus that was undeniable. Some family members and friends (Linda and Kristen Brown) rubbed his feet and sang to him till the morning light broke, and God then really made His presence known at 6:30 a.m. when the sun was just beginning to rise and the sun covered my dad from head to toe with birds singing in the courtyard outside, my dad feel asleep. When I look back over last year of my dad’s life it can appear that God is no where to be seen, but if you look at what happened before and even what happened during his final months God is everywhere.

I learned a lot about what it means to trust God in the midst of some of the toughest times I have had thus far in life.

Contrary to our immediate experience God can be trusted.

The One whom Jesus called Father can be trusted.

And this Father is not what we too often wind up thinking about God which is Moralistic Therapeutic Deism…God as therapist, butler, and free vending machine…

I find this to be so true “the one great idol of our time is the idol of entitlement”  

I think I’m owed some things, a certain quality of family life, a certain quality of financial well-being, certain level of health. Once we get rid of all that…then we have what you call faith.

Here is a truth to the Jesus story. The God that Jesus called Father lets him die. The God that I call Father let my dad die. And in the midst of the death of Jesus is this deep empowering trust that death does not have the final say.

Trusting God does not mean you/me/us will get everything we want when we want it. Trusting God means that you believe he will not abandon us.

It’s believing sometimes against our experience that no matter how it looks right now God can be trusted.

Will we trust Abba Father to be the provider and caretaker and security or will we attempt to be the source of our own security?